Big thankee to Mr Berk and Pants of Dog for arranging dedicated servitude on Bukkakiness. Apparently though it's a bit of a resource hog and so it can't run 24/7. I'll schedule games from time to time and fire up the server as and when, and try to deconflict with other games. Failing that I think Traveyb has a spare slot on his server and we could migrate to that one if it becomes a pain in the arse. It's mostly us two playing ArmA at the moment anyway.
I've made a 'mess about mission' already which has all the toys to play with (Called Friz's Mess About Mission or something). It's uploaded to the server so feel free to abuse.
I'm just trying to find the time to get used to the way the game's played again so I can play without having to ask everyone how to speak/drive/crouch. Monday now probably.