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Strawberry Dragon wrote:I agree with everything Joose says, although there is one important thing he missed out, and that's gender stereotyping.

People often assume that because I have a pink website about cute dragons, that I am female. But there's no reason a man can't like things that are pink and cute, it's just that most men learnt from an early age that liking things like that tends to get the crap beaten out of them, so they steer well away from anything that isn't brutishly male and heterosexual.

The same goes for women. A girl who likes cars, guns and fiddling with computers is going to have to put up with being called a lezzer and having cruel rumours spread around about her at school. So often women don't give "male" things a chance.

I'm fairly girly, and I generally prefer buildy, rpg and social games over shooty, fighty ones. I never really enjoyed FPS games to begin with, but because I hung around with a lot of men who constantly roped me into playing, I have come to quite enjoy them. It's a way to be social and have a laugh, and gaming not necessarily any more male or female than going to the pub or watching a film. But if I had been around more women growing up, it's unlikely I would be the gamer I am.

Although there are general differences between men and women, they are made much more pronounced by the social pigeonholing that is tortured into us by playground bullies...and usually it's those in the geek community that suffer from these the most :)
Whilst I agree that social pigeonholing probably has some effect, the reason I didnt mention it is because im not convinced that it really has that significant an impact. For one thing, the subject matter of a lot of games (mostly the FPS and RTS genres, RPG's less so) just doesnt interest your average girl. The emphasis is on shooting things in the face. The why is nearly always less important than the how, presuming that the why is mentioned at all. Take arguably the best FPS ever, Half Life. There are aliens. Shoot them. Shoot them with machine guns. Shoot them with crossbows. Shoot them with railguns and some wierd alien shit. Why? Cos...hell, they are aliens! Shoot them because they are shooting you! This side of things isnt just in games; shooty films with flimsy storylines are almost universally snubbed by the ladys. As are telly programs. And books. I dont think this is down to people bullying the gun-lust out of girls, I just dont think its there.

Again, Im talking about the majority here. Im certain there are girls out there who are major gun nuts. I know of girls who are into things traditionally thought of as "blokey" myself, but I know of a hell of a lot more that would rather chop their hands off than play some generic shooter, even if it looked georgeous and had every gun known to man, accurately modeled. I just dont think the statistics hold up to the suggestion that peer pressure has a significant impact on it.

Besides, like i mentioned above, some of the differences between men and women are physical, not psychological. It would take some pretty intense bullying to alter the internal workings of the visual centers of the brain :)
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FatherJack wrote:Agreed, although there's a world of difference being roped into playing an FPS and the way we play them here. Even though we currently have a tournament going, the emphasis is firmly on fun, rather than ultra-competetiveness.
^^this
Tylorva wrote: I found the Sims to be the dullest game on the planet. *shudder*
^^and this
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Post by halus »

aaaaugh
the one time i have anything relevant to say and i have to post from a PSP.
prepare to resurrect this thread in 5 days.
*frustrates*
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pfft.
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Strawberry Dragon wrote:
Tylorva wrote: I found the Sims to be the dullest game on the planet. *shudder*
^^and this
I found the Sims to be very much like heroin. I hated it. It was a godawfull curse of a game. I really, really wanted to stop playing it.

I just couldnt.

Took me over a fucking year to finally kick the habit. And then what do I see in the shops today? Sims 2 expansion pack.

BACK, DEMONSPAWN! AWAY WITH THEE!


also:
Grimmie wrote:
Hop on over to the RTS section!
Joose and I are always looking for new people.
People unaffected by the C&C Generals Tournament fiasco.
This, hard.
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Post by Strawberry Dragon »

I like playing RTS games, but playing multiplayer always ends up in someone getting grouchy...
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Strawberry Dragon wrote:I like playing RTS games, but playing multiplayer always ends up in someone getting grouchy...
only when the buggers dont turn up :x

but in all seriousness (ironically), our RTS games don't really get taken much more seriously than anything else in 5punk. Its all for giggles, and as far as im aware, nobody so far has got in a grump over loseing.

Plus, a lot of the games we play are us collectively smashing the computer player. Personally, I would love to get more games against real people going, so more people RTSwards! RUN, DONT WALK!
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Post by Dog Pants »

It's slightly embarrassing that it's taken the introduction of a few female gamers in quick succession to prompt this discussion, but I'm glad we've responded with quick bummings and a few intelligent responses. Proves that we (as a rather male dominated site, with the occasional interjection of Halus) aren't swayed by the usual stereotypes that plague gaming sites.

I'm also quite amused by the fact that nobody actually knows whether Strawb is male or female due to several noncommittal posts*. Well done that Dragon.



*Disclaimer: Well I don't and most others don't. Maybe some more regular B3tards than I do. Mind you, I am rather drunk.
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To completly ignore all the discussion going on:
amblin wrote:I think you'll really enjoy eve for this aspect of the game, the level of planning and action that has to take place for good things to happen.
OMFG! THIS :above: :above: :above: :above:

Corporate, personal and alliance matters make for a real headache sometimes.
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Joose wrote:but in all seriousness (ironically), our RTS games don't really get taken much more seriously than anything else in 5punk. Its all for giggles, and as far as im aware, nobody so far has got in a grump over loseing.
Speaking of which, when are we going to do the next installment of Everyone v Joose in WCIII? :P
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Post by Woo Elephant Yeah »

I'm going to split this female gamer topic off into the General forum so everyone get's chance to read it.
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Post by Woo Elephant Yeah »

Having played games with my wife for several years, I feel I have the ability to comment a little bit on this debate.

I think Joose's comments on the physical difference between men and women (in regards to their vision, not body parts :roll: ) is bang on, and accounts for the majority of female gamers not enjoying FPS.

However, taking Ratchet and Clank as an example, this is a 3D Platformer/Shooter.

Both myself and the missus love playing games like these due to the varied nature of the game, i.e.

sliding on rails
jumping from moving/stationery platforms
shooting things in a top down arena
shooting stuff in an "almost" FPS way
solving puzzles and finding objects to continue through the game

The only thing I find is that when bits of the game become "very" active, and there are tonnes of things to shoot all around you, whilst having to run round at the same time, this then becomes extremely dificult for my Mrs Woo.

This is the part where she passes me the controller, and I obviously "PwNz0rZ" all the bad guys into oblivion. Because of this sharing controllers and the game in the general, it becomes more fun than it would of been playing the agme on your own.

Also, my wife loves to play puzzle games, and more often than not, she now plays over a 100 games I "found on the floor" on the P.C. when she fancies a break on an evening after looking after baby Abigail all day.

The weird part is, I enjoy all the games that she enjoys, however last nigh tsummmed it up for me as I was playing COD2 with a mate on his Xbox 360, and she said "You play this for hours with your mates on 5punk? How boring!"

Female gamers tend to like games that "look nice" and are at a slower pace than most games offered today.

As mentioned before, I wanted to buy an Xbox 360, however if you look at the launch titles, there isn't a single game in the list that I would recommend to a "female gamer".

This is the reason I won't buy the console, because quite simply, it would just be me playing it, and the chances I get to sit on my own in the front room playing games are once in a blue moon.

Sony have the right idea for their playstation consoles, as they offer a huge range of games, and try to keep both camps happy as opposed to the 360 which is the most male dominated game console I have ever seen released to date.

NOTE : If any of you would like to find these puzzle games on a restricted access floor, please PM me and I will help you aquire them
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Post by Grimmie »

Joose wrote:but in all seriousness (ironically), our RTS games don't really get taken much more seriously than anything else in 5punk. Its all for giggles, and as far as im aware, nobody so far has got in a grump over loseing.
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Tylorva wrote:I dislike FPS's and world-building games because they lack definable objectives to me. I enjoy playing shooters in single-person storyline mode, but I get bored very quickly if it's just about going round fragging everyone else.
There are some FPSs that have a little more depth than your standard Quake type gameplay, I find simply running around as fast as you can shooting anyone you see quite boring too. For instance Battlefield 2 can involve a lot of team work and strategic play, see my review for more info: http://www.5punk.co.uk/phpbb/viewtopic.php?t=2314
To be honest it still has strong roots in standard FPS gameplay but it's worth noting that the genre is starting to grow up.
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spoodie wrote: There are some FPSs that have a little more depth than your standard Quake type gameplay, I find simply running around as fast as you can shooting anyone you see quite boring too. For instance Battlefield 2 can involve a lot of team work and strategic play, see my review for more info: http://www.5punk.co.uk/phpbb/viewtopic.php?t=2314
To be honest it still has strong roots in standard FPS gameplay but it's worth noting that the genre is starting to grow up.
This, to a level - it's certainly very much an FPS, but due to the length of the rounds, you can make it a lot more non combat objective based (like healing or supplying people) not to mention the command mode.
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Post by friznit »

Good Lord, an idle question spawned quite a thread :shock: Some fascinating comments there from everyone. narf, I'm surprised the industry hasn't tried a bit harder to tap into the 50% of the market they're missing out on. Clearly there is potential to develop an appeal to women in games without steering to far from the central theme, or resorting to pathetic, stereotyped attempts such as a 'My Little Pony Simulator'.

As many of you know, I come from a hugely male dominated background given my line of work - and one with lots of guns too. However, I prefer the RPG or 4x type games. All too often I find the single player FPS and RTS genre repetative and linear and the multiplayer fragfests frustratingly boring. I am a huge fan of cooperative play, especially in the slower paced games - I played Op Flashpoint for years for this reason (and it's got tanks in it).

That said, given the comments I've read and what I now know about the 5punk community, I may have to try reinstalling BEEF or COD some day and giving it a second chance on our home server. Meanwhile, I have a to sort out this week's missions and tasks for 5punkorp ;)
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Post by Lateralus »

:above: This

I've said it before, and I'll say it again, but Beef really is a whole lot more fun when playing with even just one other 5punker. The cooperative element of the game with the complimentary kits make it a whole lot more interesting than a straight fragfest.

I'm personally a big fan of the character-type development you get in stuff like Morrowind and Oblivion (one week :excited: :excited: :excited: ), and I never saw the appeal of the Sims. Spore, however, looks a whole lot more fun, and I can see it appealing to near-enough most people with an interest in gaming.

My experience of girls and gaming is fairly restricted to be honest. My housemate from a couple of years back was addicted to the Sims, but she also quite like Half Life 2. I think it was her only foray into FPS games tho, and she never got into CS:S at all. My girlfriend used to love Mario and other 2D scrolling platform type games, but has never really gotten into anything else at all. Shes a really intelligent girl, and I love her to bits, but bless her: she can't deal with 3D environments at all, and if it takes more than about 2 mins to learn how to play the game she just gets bored and gives up. Psychonauts would just drive her potty.
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Lateralus wrote:Spore, however, looks a whole lot more fun, and I can see it appealing to near-enough most people with an interest in gaming.
Indeed, Spore does look pant-wettingly good. I love the idea of competing against other players' creatures offline - you get the achievment of beating someone else without the hassle of getting a kicking online every game from someone who's vastly better than you (happens to me in everything I play :cry: ).
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Dog Pants wrote: Indeed, Spore does look pant-wettingly good. I love the idea of competing against other players' creatures offline - you get the achievment of beating someone else without the hassle of getting a kicking online every game from someone who's vastly better than you .
That :above:
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